Life Scribbles: Don’t Give Up in Doing Good
I had the privilege of speaking this week at a youth workers conference for the Salvation Army, an organization/church that has been around since 1865. Yes, the organization will turn 145 years old this year! I was thoroughly impressed by their legacy and ability to continue their work throughout all of the many changes in history.
In addition, it was encouraging to see a diverse movement of people working together to do good in the world. By far, it was one of the most culturally diverse gatherings I had ever been to. Loved it!
I think that those of us working in areas of compassion and justice can all appreciate what it takes to persevere in doing good. Although bringing care and relief for those in need may be thoroughly fulfilling, the work itself can often be overwhelming, draining, and even discouraging. Like any other good thing in life, it takes a lot of work.
In light of this reality, I’d like to offer the following insights into how we can persevere in doing good:
- Don’t forget who you are and what you’re about.
- As individuals and organizations grow, it is quite possible to lose focus. It is imperative that individuals and organizations remember what they’re about. This means that we need to know what we’re NOT about. This is not to say that expansion or change in expression shouldn’t occur. In fact, we need to adapt to our ever-changing context. Nevertheless, in doing so, we must still keep remember who we are and what we’re about.
- The truth is that no one person or organization can solve it all. That’s impossible! Get over it. You alone will not change the entire world. It may be worthwhile to ask: What do we uniquely bring to table? What role do we play relative to all the others involved? Does our existence matter? How does it matter?
- You are secondary to the “cause”.
- The ultimate goal in doing good is NOT to make a name for ourselves. The “cause” must be greater than any one personality (whether individually or as an organization). There is a fine line between healthy brand development to help a cause and self-centered promotion. Humanity (i.e., us) has the propensity to be ego-centric and narcissistic. Unfortunately, this can become a huge obstacles to individuals and organizations working together.
- Don’t view other organizations as your competition. This will lead to destructive behavior and ultimately hurt the people you’re trying to help. I’ve seen too many organizations severe themselves from great potential because of their insecurities.
- Network, Platform, and Support
- Commit yourself to partner with others, even with those that you may not see eye-to-eye. Consider ways to leverage each other’s strengths for the greater good. The fact is that no two organizations will completely agree on everything. If so, they would be the same organization. It’s okay to disagree but it’s not okay not to even consider networking together.
- One way to kill competition is to platform other individuals and organizations. Do it! Do it regularly. It may feel counter intuitive for many, but in the end, it usually leads to greater good. Talk about other groups and highlight some of their great work. In due time, the response will become reciprocal towards your work.
- Support the works of others. Yes, this sounds crazy in light of our current economic crisis, but still do it. Be generous to others as you desire them to be generous towards you. Generosity multiplies impact and it’s funny how generosity leads to opportunities unforeseen.
I hope that all great organizations survive for many years like the Salvation Army. Even though some may not resonate with nor understand the language, structure, and look of organizations like the Salvation Army. They are still around impacting millions around the world because they know who they are (and who they’re not) and have committed to working with other organizations for the greater good. We can still learn much from organizations that are proven!
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Thanks for sharing Charles.
I appreciate the reminder to remember what we’re NOT about. It’s so tempting to look at other groups and like what they’re doing or see it being effective and think we should be doing the same to be effective. But the same thing that’s effective there can suck the life out of us. I can appreciate this advice in regards to our youth group the children’s ministry I oversee and even my own personal way of living. Thanks for reminding me to stay on track with with what I know God has called me to in these areas. Always appreciate that.
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Hey Charles
…so pleased it went well
J
Thanks for the note Candace. I’m glad it was a source of encouragement and affirmation for you. You and Judah do phenomenal work. I’m glad you have this perspective. We’ll need both of you for a long time.
Thanks Johnny. I had a great time with the Salvation Army. So glad you’re connected.
I love this post. I’m glad to see that you included thoughts on being secondary to the cause and network, platform, and support. I spent several years working in the non-profit world professionally and continue to assist when ad where I can. It is very common to see people confuses themselves with the cause. And when you are honestly passionate about what you are doing it’s sometimes hard to see that in yourself. One of the many, many benefits of a strong support network is helping you to keep that in check.
Great post!
Thanks for the note Nicole.
Great thoughts. Love how you think.
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Charles,
Thank’s for coming and sharing with us! It was truly inspiring. I especially liked your thoughts regarding unity and working together. I pray this would become a reality within the “church”.
Peace
Thanks for the note Rob! It was great to be with your group 🙂 Appreciate your thoughts.
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charles- helpful post. meshed well with the collaboration themes in your message today. thought i’d mention 2 things-
1- have you seen http://www.youversion.com? it is an online bible site with collaboration features. i think you might find it worth an examination. the “live” feature allows an individual church to create some really interesting “real time” sessions. the iphone app version of this software is the #1 search result in the app store for the term “bible” and the product has more than 10,000 reviews there, so it is trending strong at the moment. it is mostly the product of 1 fellow at a church in oklahoma. i came across this blog post about him http://bit.ly/6dJtRN which i found kinda inspiring. newsongla is has begun using youversion.com for the “live” feature… looking forward to seeing how it works out.
2- noticed you mentioned the wisdom of the crowd today at service. have you ever tried the google autocomplete trick? http://www.numberforty7.com/?p=146